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Two Years Gone

2016-01-06 /

I had just returned from a 10 day trip to Barcelona, and I knew that my life was going to be changing in a big way. All my little personal experiments leading up to this had provided me with the information that I needed to be sure that I could do this. Two years ago today, I walked into my boss’s office and presented him with my resignation letter letting him know I would be leaving the company in 2 weeks. Logically, he assumed I was going to work at another IT related job, so he asked me where I was going. When I told him I was going to leave the US to teach English, the look on his face was priceless! He asked me when I was leaving. I told him I didn’t know – I hadn’t figured that out yet. He asked me where I was going. I told him I didn’t know – I hadn’t figured that out yet. He asked me if I could stay longer than 2 weeks. I told him that I could not. After 2 weeks, it would be time to go. And so I went.

At first I was going to summarize things here to pull together everything that I’ve experienced in these last 2 years, but it just kept going on and on, and I realized that it wasn’t going to be all that interesting to read in one gigantic article. I probably should have journaled and blogged more along the way to be able to share things as they happened, but, well, I didn’t. As a result, you get the bulleted highlights:

  • January 2014: Quit corporate job
  • April 2014: Received English teaching certification in Rio de Janeiro
  • July 2014: Returned to US, sold house
  • August 2014: Arrived in Florianópolis, Brazil and began teaching English
  • December 2014: Left Florianópolis, traveled to Buenos Aires, Argentina
  • February 2015: Began work as freelance tech writer via the Internet
  • June 2015: Returned to US – I had packed WAY too much!
  • September 2015: Went to Cozumel, Mexico – just because I can do that now
  • November 2015: Returned to US
  • January 2016: I don’t know – I haven’t figured that out yet

I learned a lot. I learned a lot about other people, other cultures, and other languages. I learned a lot about my family and friends. I learned a lot about myself. I faced and overcame situations. I fought personal demons – got my ass kicked once in a while – but eventually came out on top. I met awesome people in every country I visited, both locals and other fellow travelers.

Since I’ve been back in the US, I’ve had some people ask me if I’m done with this experience. Huh? Done? Are you kidding me?! I’m just starting to get the hang of it! As far as I’m concerned, the US has just become another stop along the way to somewhere else. No – not done. Stay tuned.

So that being said, this year, one of my goals is to write more often so that you’ll be getting more than just a bulleted list of what I’ve been up to once every couple of years. If you’d like to keep up with things on a regular basis, I’d be honored if you would take a couple of minutes to sign up for my email list on my website: whereveryoufindme.com.

Thanks for spending a few minutes reading – we’ll talk soon!

Why Can’t My Baby Learn Faster?

2015-08-29 /

My baby turned 1 year old on April Fool’s Day. There wasn’t a big party, balloons, ice cream or presents like most kids have. No big April Fool’s Day jokes, although the irony of having this particular day mark the beginning of someone’s whole new life wasn’t lost on me.

Like any parent on such a significant day, I took some time to reflect back over that first year of my child’s life. As I stood there looking, I remembered how many things happened during that first year. Beginning in such a totally helpless and vulnerable state, they need help to survive from everyone around them. Can’t speak a word, so they can’t tell anyone what’s wrong or what’s right. Smiling, laughing, pointing and yes, sometimes yelling and crying is all they’ve got. But people figure it out. And the child continues to learn and grow. Starts to crawl from one place to the next. Their world is getting bigger. They babble out some things that sound almost like words. They get what they want from their helpers the very first time. Any day now, they’re going to pull themselves up on that coffee table and start stumbling their way across the living room. There is still A LOT ahead for them as they continue to learn and grow, but what a significant time that first year is, right?

As I looked away from the mirror and looked out my window at this wonderful view of Buenos Aires, it’s hard to believe it’s been a year since I first left the United States. My experiences over the year have been similar in many ways to that developing 1 year old child. Left a comfortable environment and went to a place that was completely different. Couldn’t speak the language. Everyone was a stranger. Had to learn how to get around. Tried to figure out where/how to fit into social situations and the culture.

The learning comes from the struggle…

But I’m a grown man. This ought to be easy enough, right? I have years of life experiences behind me that have taught me how to handle new situations and overcome difficult ones, right? Well, yes and no. While it’s true that I’ve certainly learned from experiences I’ve had in life, this one has been like no other. There are days when it feels like it’s coming together, and then there are days when it feels like I should just pack up my shit and go back where I came from. It’s on those tough days that I have to remind myself that I’m basically a 1 year old child in this experience. I’ve chosen to strip my life back down to just about ground zero in many ways. Why am I surprised when it turns out to be hard? OK then, this is when I get to play the grown up card: I can step back for a moment and use my powers of intellect and reasoning to assess the situation and come to the realization that these things I come up against can all be dealt with or overcome, I just need a strategy and a plan to make that happen. But wait…is it really that hard? Does a 1 year old baby do that? Nope, the baby just keeps plowing ahead, learning by doing, day after day until they get it. Learning things at this basic of a level takes time and practice and the willingness to engage in order to make it happen. Pretty simple in theory, but I just need to keep in mind that the learning comes from the struggle, so don’t run from the struggle.

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I started that post back in April while I was living in Buenos Aires, but I never finished it. In keeping with it’s theme, I decided I needed to go back and finish it and post it. I struggled. I learned.

Hello World! No, Really!

2015-03-22 /

When I first set this blog up, the WordPress folks saw fit to give me a sample post with the title of “Hello World!” on my site that contained a few lines of text so I could see how a post would look. I didn’t think much about it as I got the blog all set up. I figured at some point I would just delete it and replace it with my own wonderfully compelling words and add a much catchier title.

However, as I began writing this, I realized that “Hello World” is actually a pretty appropriate title for this post. OK, I tweaked it a little bit so people wouldn’t think I was just too lazy to delete the default title, but the general theme is still the same – Hello World: look – here I am – out here for the world to see now.

A couple of years ago, I wouldn’t have (and probably couldn’t have) imagined it. Sitting on the balcony of my own apartment in Buenos Aires, Argentina, having coffee in the cool morning sun, and plunking out my first blog post while David Sanborn plays in the background and the pigeons watch curiously. It would have seemed surreal. But not because I hadn’t dreamed of doing something like that, but because I didn’t think I could actually ever do it. Not in the cards for me. Need to win the lottery for it to even come close to being a reality.

balcony-bsas

Another beautiful sunrise in Buenos Aires!

But here I sit – plunking away. I’ve done more to change my life in the last 12 months than I would have ever expected. I plan to test my wings as a wordslinger here, writing about things that are happening, things that have happened, and probably just some general thoughts on life. Sign up for email updates so you’ll know when I add new content. I’ll do my best to make it time well spent for you.

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